Relationship Talk 5 Signs you or your partner has trust issues

 

When people have trust issues in a relationship, they tend to create a tense atmosphere for their partner.

Unresolved hurts from the past is a major cause of this “syndrome.”

The inability to let go and trust, will hinder you from enjoying your relationship. You will not have the capacity to love and receive love.

Most times, people with trust issues really do not know. So, here are some clear signs for you to measure yourself or your partner.

1. Snooping around: If you check your partner’s phone always, it is a sign you have trust issues. Some people lock their phones to protect their data. Protecting your data is good, but your partner or spouse has to know your password too. If your partner does not know your passwords, it is also a clear sign of trust issues.

2. Monitoring: You are always monitoring his or her whereabouts, listening to hear any background sound that gives his real location away. That’s trust issue alert blairing.

3. You jump into conclusion: You are just quick to reach a verdict, when the signs you have rehearsed in your head, seem to play out. The stain on his shirt might just be from an innocent hug with a colleague. That he/she did not answer your call, does not mean he/she is messing around.

4. Always finding loopholes: You have become a relationship police who looks for discrepancies in statements. Always finding faults and asking suspicious questions.

5. You set traps and tests: Always testing your partner to see if they will act wrongly or turn out to be like the last person. It will only hurt the relationship more and deepen the resentment you are breeding.